I have been getting a lot of inquiries from the Brethren on how to actually build and maintain a Harem. Well I will give some suggestions, but it is paramount for brothers to understand that establishing a Harem is respectively based on the individual who is attempting to establish one. A few things brothers need to consider when entertaining the idea of creating a Harem are:
1. Other men and women will hate you: Anyone who has traversed the Manosphere or more specifically the “anglosphere” will encounter a deep hatred for Harem life and polygyny in general. Many of them believe that the Western European Colonial powers did a wonderful thing by implementing prescriptive monogamy and outlawing polygyny; under the guise that prescriptive monogamy is better for men in general because it insures every man will have a wife or mate and that it is good way to discourage hypergamy among women.
This mentality is usually promoted by European/Anglo/White Males. So just realize that if and when people find out that you have a Harem or are aspiring to establish one, they will uncontrollably hate on you. The type of women who will hate on you are feminist (especially black feminist) who view brothers being happy and dominant as the worse thing on Earth. So unless you are fine with being viewed as a villain then proceed with caution.
2. Money is of upmost importance: Many men complain about female nature, especially hypergamy and rightfully so, however complaining about this aspect of female nature will solve absolutely nothing. A major reason man has been able to obtain greatness on this Earth is because his ability to discern the nature of things adjust, and then adapt accordingly to control the subject of discernment to his desire and will. When dealing with women you want to make sure your money and bread is tight.
Not for the purpose of impressing them, because you don’t need money to get women. There are plenty of bum-ass guys out there getting grade A vagina. Men who use their money to impress or get women are idiots because they are simply placing a bull eyes on their back, making themselves a target for women to extract money and resources from them. Women will use a man with money to take care of her material needs and resources and use another broke ass man for sexual gratification. The reason you want to have your bread up, is so you can have options. Ever heard of the axiom “you will lose money chasing women, but you will never lose women chasing money.” This is very much true.
Having money increases your options in life in general. Women will flock around men with money, like fruits flies to grapes. It’s exactly like having good credit. If you have bad credit you will have to have co-signers, larger down payment and higher interest rates. Good credit will have creditors chasing you, sending you unsolicited offers, higher credit limits and lower interest rates. Men are appalled by the hypergamous nature of women, however there is no need to appalled. Men have failed to get pass their emotions and have failed to accept that interacting with women especially having sex with them is exclusively commercial activity. Consider the definition of commerce according to dictionary.com:
1. an interchange of goods or commodities, especially on a large scale between different countries (foreign commerce) or between different parts of the same country (domestic commerce) trade; business.
2. social relations, especially the exchange of views, attitudes, etc.
3. sexual intercourse.
4. intellectual or spiritual interchange; communion.
As you can see the 3rd definition of commerce is sexual intercourse. This is why men should not get offended by hypergamy and accept things for what they are. Man has deluded himself into thinking he must stay with the same woman for the duration of his life. Women are constantly seeking for a better deal, just as they do when they are shopping looking for a sale. In commerce and business partnerships come to an end and new ones are established all the time.
Brothers will do best to view all interaction with women as a commercial transaction. Falling for the emotion of love is simply a brain chemical reaction that is likened to drug addiction, since it is the same chemical (dopamine) that is released when both feelings are exhibited. Brothers should examine how women view motherhood and being a wife as a Job. They will refer to either or as their first or second job. It is for this reason brother’s should view women as employees there to serve you and your ultimate agenda.
3. Establish contracts and put everything in writing: In today’s world of women, there are all sorts of hazards a man subjects himself to, if and when he decides to engage in commerce with women. Especially legally. Consider the Consent Laws passed in California, where as a Man has to retrieve an “EMPHATIC YES” for sex to be consensually legal. As we now know that Sex is indeed a specific type and form of commerce, it is only right to treat interacting with women as a business transaction.
No matter how you may want to spin it, it will always and forever be, nothing more than a mere business agreement, arrangement or contract. If you are into the love game, then realize the emotion and feeling you are calling love is simply the chemicals dopamine and oxytocin being released into the blood stream, which is the same chemical reaction when a person is addicted to drugs. Also consider the. Ever heard of “Briffault’s Law?“
The female, not the male, determines all the conditions of the animal family. Where the female can derive no benefit from association with the male, no such association takes place.
There are a few corollaries:
1. Past benefit provided by the male does not provide for continued or future association.
2. Any agreement where the male provides a current benefit in return for a promise of future association is null and void as soon as the male has provided the benefit.
3. A promise of future benefit has limited influence on current/future association, with the influence inversely proportionate to the length of time until the benefit will be given and directly proportionate to the degree to which the female trusts the male.”